What does Sincerity means to me?
Use your heart. Use your action. Not your bloody mouth. Or are the words that are uttered from it. The recipient should be able to feel it.
I just feel that sometimes, people forget that they do something because they want to, not because they need to. If a person really means something to you, then you should do it because you want to. If it is something you have to do, it becomes a chore. A job. No joy will ever come out of doing that.
On a completely unrelated note, I have given some thoughts about my 21st birthday. I won't have any parties. No presents will be expected too, because I know the hassles involved lol. The hours spent thinking what to get, to go and get it. Later you realise that your present is a double because someone else bought the same thing. Or worse, the present is not ideal but the recipient have to pretend and like it out of courtesy..lol You get my drift. So no presents, but you can give me an Ang Bao! Hahaha, damn even if it's 5 bucks from a single person, I swear to Merlin, I will treasure it like
hell. It is going to go into my England trip-savings. If I have to kiss Vicky Pollard's ass 10 times, I will do it to be in England when the last ever Harry Potter movie comes out. Of course it'll be great if I can go to the last 2. My dream of this lifetime, is to travel round the world, experience the different cultures and food. I want to dance all the tribal village dances...
And did I mention the planning I have to do? And I don't think I want to be the center of the attention the whole evening. I'd rather be sitting at some resort by the beach at sunset.
I do have something planned on that day though. I want to donate blood! It will be the first time I do so. Damn the feeling of knowing you will save someone must be great. So, this is also an invitation. If anyone wants to donate as well, we can go together. Let me know! :D